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Times of change can be painful, frustrating and confusing.
Transition occurs any time you are faced with a change in the familiar – a job, a relationship, or a way of life. Remember that it takes courage, time, and emotional support to explore new directions.
When you’re in the middle of a transition, keep in mind the following points:
· Take your time. You can’t make a transition overnight. Everyone changes at a different rate.
· Accept a given situation as temporary. For example, you may be uneasy at your new job now, but feelings change.
· Expect some discomfort. Most changes involve loss. People react differently to loss, but many feel angry, anxious, or sad at times.
· Don’t act for the sake of action. Sometimes people feel that anything they do will help. Stop and think about what you’re doing and know why you want to do it.
· Take care of yourself in little ways. Treat yourself to your favorite hobby, an hour of recreational reading, or something you enjoy and over which you have some control.
· Find someone to talk to. Share your feelings; it may influence how you react. Someone who’s been in the same situation can better understand how you feel.
Transitions are inevitable in life. With a healthy attitude, you can work through this process and find the stability you want.
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